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Relationship Advice


I Do Podcast interviews today’s most successful and inspiring relationship experts, therapists and couples. Hosted by Chase and Sarah Kosterlitz, I Do Podcast is all about inspiring young couples to create a fulfilling and happy relationship. Our bi-weekly podcast will give you great advice to improve your relationship and fun ways to keep the spark alive. Each episode we will interview amazing relationship experts who share their knowledge on building successful and lasting love. Our guests will provide daily tips to improve your relationship, advice for young couples, amazing books and resources and much more. Join us on our journey to create lasting love!

Feb 14, 2018

Want to have better sex!? If you answered, YES!, then this episode is for you. It turns out that as relationships mature, the sex tends to become less frequent and less passionate. Don't despair. There are simple steps to help improve your sex life right here in this episode. Listen and learn!

In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

  • Why being aware of when you're aroused and what that feels like is the first step to better sex.
  • Dumb and happy arousal and why it's important in your relationship.
  • Why women are increasingly less satisfied in bed and what to do about it (hint: smartphones and porn).
  • The importance of taking your time during sex and not simply having the goal of climaxing.
  • Why you should 'simmer' and not only get aroused when you are going to have sex.
  • Understanding that everyone is responsible for their own arousal.
  • Learn what 'lazy sex' is and how it can help your relationship.
  • And much more!

Stephen Snyder, M.D. is a sex and couples therapist, psychiatrist, and writer in New York City. He is an Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mt. Sinai in New York City, and chairman of the Consumer Book Award Committee for the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR). He has treated patients at his practice for 25 years, is a guest on major media outlets nationwide, and writes for Psychology Today and Huffington Post. He lives with his wife and children in New York City.

Full show notes and episode links at: http://idopodcast.com/134

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